CHILDREN FROM AGE 12 SHOULD BE TAUGHT ABOUT CONDOM USE

Tough most African nations have largely endorsed a law that children to be sexually active should be aged 18 and above, but all these actions unfortunately happen below 18. These actions however have consequences for individuals and the world's major health indicators.
 I was natured in a good manner to the extent of kneeling down to every one irrespective of the age. Much as the idea seemed to be unusual,it made me famous and respected allover at an age of 9. In primary six, my heart was hardened in love with the head-girl. Since i was a nice looking, handsome and calm boy, i caused roaring laughter to the staff when i frankly told them that no matter what am in love with her.
From the day she kissed me, i change my mindset and paid much attention to the sex orgies.All this was taking place without the concern of my parents until when matters were made worse, when she got pregnant in second term of primary seven. The story is endless but fortunately of all i was saved from HIV/AIDS.
"Most children today below age 15  according to research are more sexually active and therefore their chances of contracting HIV/AIDS or pregnancy is high and so should be taught about condom use".

YOUR BEST FRIEND IS YOUR WORST ENEMY

As many people today are yearning to get mob friends, currently through Facebook,Twitter,Skype,yahoo mes sager,Google+ and other social media, many of them have gone from bad to worse.

With the emotion of Godliness, I always treated every one as God’s image irrespective of where he/she comes from. In 2002, my parents took me to Seeta High School in form one. Life was marvelous and impressing to all students with a good student’s secure environment.

Bursaries were given to the best performers in each class and this made me to work to the best of my knowledge and ability in order to off load the burden of paying school fees since I was coming from a simple family where education was meaningless.

Actually among the 8 children, am the only one who managed to go through education.  My efforts paid off and from senior two up to senior four I was on bursary scheme. When we were almost 1 day to the final exams of UNEB, my best friend who even became a relative did a remarkable thing to my life which I will take long to forget.

She pounded an empty bottle of soda and mixed it in my supper. Only to come back to my senses I was in mulago hospital. I spent there more than 4 months because my intestines were rotting.

I missed sitting for my final UNEB exams but fortunately of all by God’s grace I was relieved from the pain. Now am at Makerere University perusing my degree in Computer Science and Information Technology.

“Today there is a lot of selfish human nature and as you desire to be at peace with every one, also mind to take care of yourself”.

THE DECISION YOU MAKE DETERMINE YOUR FUTURE

As more people get strapped for money,fewer of them take the right decision towards sustaining their aspiration mostly due to lack of planning. However what is even more worrying is that even those who have families are not prioritizing savings for their children.
For the last 7 years in marriage,our planning tended not to look into the future, but dealt with situations as they happened with the argument that somehow things will sort themselves out. 
When our son Oscar made three years, we scouted for a school. Unfortunately,we couldn't find one in the neighborhood. We went a head and enlisted our son in one that's several kilometers across town,though it wasn't our aspiration.
For the first year, ew had to endure the hustle of being on the road before 5:30 am to make sure we drop our child but  also make it in time to work before the morning hour rush. It soon became apperant that this decision had a lot of pressure on our budget because tuition alone was taking 755% of our combined income, yet the fuel bills had risen substantially.
 Worse of all, one year later my husband lost the Job. Consequently our son had to be prematurely uprooted from school in bid to cut back on our expenditures. What this decision did to our son and the family as a whole is what inspired me to advise you to have long term view of your finances.
"Any lifestyle that you aspire for should be sustained by a well structured financial plan basing on your earning capacity and an action that will drive you to your dreams".

HIV IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD

Like king soul who needed David’s music to quiet the demons in his head, I needed a physician to sooth my stress and make me happy despite of my in born HIV/ AIDS disease.

I come from Bweyogerere about 3 hours walk from Wakiso town. At 20 months, I was brought to Mulago hospital with muscle wasting, wounds and abscesses from injections all over the body.

I was then accessed by a team of health workers at the hospital after seeing my weight (4.1kg) less than half the normal weight of a child. Therefore I was diagnosed with severe malnutrition, tuberculosis, malaria and HIV/AIDS.

I had no hope of survival since my mother was abandoned by her husband and family members because of HIV which she got at the age of 17. Fortunately the health workers did all they could to restore my health. Indeed they fed us and I realized it was not HIV/AIDS, but instead it was stress and lack of food that was going to massacred my life.

Today, am very proud to say to you that the wounds have been healed, no long think about death and fortunately of all I have gained weight.

“HIV/AIDS too many people’s consciousness is a killer disease and that is why people affected fill isolated out of the society, but they are human beings who need to be given peace of mind and love”.

ADULTERY TOOK MY PRIVATE PARTS

Blessed was our marriage. I grew up as a God fearing person; fortunately I married a very beautiful lady any one can admire. Since she had a good background, I was satisfied with everything on her and on addition I kept on thanking God for giving such a beautiful lady, indeed she deserved to be an angel.

As time went on, I was tempted to some ones wife miraculously. This forced me to lie to my dear one that they extended my working hours with the aim of exposing my manhood to the second wife.

The act moved on up to having more than 20 wives and at that point my so called angel became worthless. A man who was trained to be a priest.  But one night a bad incident happen when I was in the bar drinking wine and enjoying life, four the prostitutes who were having time with me cut off my private parts in the lodge.

This cannot be believable, but I reside in Mukono district near the district headquarters were I beg for support to overcome that great pain. If you happen to prove, when you reach Mukono town, just tell the boda-boda guys to direct you to the half-caste (omusufu), a name that I was given after all what happened.

“It may be a custom for most man to prove their manhood in order to satisfy their desires, but the consequences that came out of my desire to discover more about different women turned into the un pardonable sin. I therefore urge each one of you to remain faithful to your partner”.

BREASTFEEDING CAN CHANGE THE FACE OF YOUR BABY

As it is a responsibility of every mother to fully breastfeed their children for normal growth and development, but the policy was different to me because to my ideology I thought it will make me old fashioned.

In September 2003, God blessed us with our first baby. However our excitement was short-lived. I got a job up country on the very day of delivering, so I was rushed to the airport before midnight.

As soon as I arrived, I started working and left the baby with the grandmother on bottle feeding. After 3 months, my baby was diagnosed with a condition that required her to receive photo therapy and it was discovered that for her to recover quickly, she had to breastfeed a lot, but my boss could not allow babies at work.

When I got some money, I returned back to breastfeed my baby. However, because she had got used to the bottle, she did not know how to suckle the breast. My inverted nipples made matters worse; I needed to bond with my baby and on the other hand afraid of the challenges that came with bottle feeding. With all that in my minds, I became more determined than ever to get her on breast feeding.

 Finally my efforts paid off and at 9 months, my baby suckled my breast up to 20 months. She is now a healthy girl any one could admire.

“In spite of the many proposals mothers today give about breastfeeding, but scientific  research shows that breast feeding is the best gift a mother could ever give her baby so as to nurture a healthy generation”.

FARMING HAS REAPED ME ENORMOUS BENEFITS

I grew up seeing my father rearing animals and growing crops such as coffee and bananas. As a kid I started looking at farming as a viable means to livelihood. Even though my father depicted the money from farming to pay our school fees, I considered education as irrelevant. As a result I dropped out of school in senior five.

Tired of staying home and being idle forced me to move to town in such for a job. In the process, I had one and I was acting as the sales person for the E  & O Sales Company. A t that time, I was earning sh70,000 every month and I used it to finance my introduction ceremony.

Astonishingly I was denied the wife on the very day of introduction, failure to pay the bride price. After all that disappointment and constant contemplating on what to do, I moved to kayunga district where my grandfather who was blind resided.

I stayed with him for quite long before he fell sick and passed away. I then used the one acre of land which he had left to grow crops and rear animals. I started with growing bananas and sugarcane.

 Today I have expanded my land to 12 acres for agriculture and re-organized the introduction and weeding ceremony which I was denied because of failure to pay bride price.

“Farming is the best weapon against poverty and perhaps the best venture if done with a lot of passion, you will yield enormous benefits”.

RAPE TOUGHT ME A LESSON

Most of the time I would leave evidence behind, but this case produced the worst experiment any rapist could never want. Over the last two decades, I have been dragging women into bushes defiling and raping them. In the first instance it was a 73 old woman whom I attacked at night.

There have been several instances that are even remembrance, but this last attempt led to the loss of my tongue. I t was a dead night when I snacked into her room unsuspectingly while she was asleep, then I hold one strong hand on her mouth to prevent her from screaming and the other fumbling to pull off her knickers.

I tried to get romantic so I proceeded to kissing her, who taught me a lesson that will rein in my heart forever. She opened her mouth alright happily and descended on my mine, unexpectedly my pleasure then turned into a sharp yell of pain in a high soprano when she bit my tongue off and my immediate project was cut short. Am now in prison for 40 years.Though i committed the un pardonable sin, i can help you find ways of escaping the rapists.  “These events traumatize women, change their lives forever and they are rampant today, but women don’t need to be strong to repulse rapists instead need to apply a high level of integrity in such instances”